I always write about Hari,Harshitha and our treatment on Hari.On this occasion of our anniversary I take this opportunity to share about Prashanth .
My love grow more everyday for him since the day I met him I think.If someone asked why you want to marry him 11 years back - I would say because my mom said so.But never a day I think I am in this marriage because my parents said so ,it's because I love the life that we are trying to build together. Like any other person or marriage in the world we have good and hard time.
You want to share good times with your friend ,but you need a friend in your hard time to help you out.Your respect and love grows deep seeing him around you ,showing you he is like an anchor on your side ,not leaving whatever risks or danger you are in .His thoughts and actions are to sail you back safe and Prashanth has shown me time after time that he is that friend to me .
Most of the rough time -let it be Harshitha's initial 2-3 years years of wheezing, my mom's illness and eventually her passing away, my leg injury , Hari's diagnosis of autism and every day since then our life is always about fixing a problem, finding a doctor, look for therapies, other alternative interventions to help our family.He not just been there, but to keep our household to have a normal life.
One thing is sure -Prashanth is always there to stand next to me,supporting every single decision I make irrespective of outcome it turn out for Hari. It's been hundreds of decisions and thousands of dollars still he never said no to any of my new treatment plans for Hari .
Patience - He is man of patience or else so for atleast once a day is 11 years * 365 times I need to apply for divorce .I know I am the trigger for your anger . (every time you loose your mind ,please see I am your help to get back to normal Let it be being most careless things I do by loosing a home key,wallet,cell phone ,or accidents or any other one etc ( I can fill in for rest of the day if I have to put every single one of them in the last 11 years) .I see behind every anger moments of you ,there is never a husband or a man ,I always seen a genuine person with concern about safety of our home and family. Including the one today morning - for every one of them sorry and I am working to be more aware and safe.
From giving reminders to take my medicine to handling biggest of finances , I know you are there.I respect every comfort that you give to Hari as his Dad .My prayers for our happiness to grow together in every day more .
Thanks for being such a lovely person and my prayers to stay as loving,caring,honest person .
